Malik Sameed
My school days were the happiest days of my life; which should give you some indication of the misery I’ve endured over the past twenty-five years.–Paul Merton
The career of student is turning point of his life; a parent has a dream to express his ward in the society. Education is an important skill in this fast running generation of ours, everyone wants to be comfortable and educated in flora and fauna. The student has lots of ups and downs in his life and some go for positive way and some for negative way and who takes the positive way surely will succeed in every field. From pre nursery to 10th standard a student don’t have any such tension or we can say pressure, they spend this time with enjoyment and use funny tricks. School days are the moments worth remembering, these are really days of joy without any type of stress or anything. We don’t have any planning for future and don’t know how to do in entire life, after then we carry our life at smooth tract.
After passing the 10+2 examination the journey of mind study starts, the life became very confusing and don’t know which way to take and get good reference in future, student always puzzle while taking stream of his own choice, on one side parents want something different degree and his relatives want another like science, law etc and his friends give different suggestions and advices, while he gets very confused and could not take the decision, feel disturb, alone, helpless. On one side maximum parents pressurize their wards that if they have to study forward, if they have to do something in their life then they have to follow them and take decisions as per their directions then they will be successful in their life otherwise they can’t spend their life comfortably. No doubt the parents are right at their side and they wants better placement for their wards but for some circumstances the ward must direct his life and its must for them to take their decisions in positive way but unfortunately maximum students don’t have their own choice and their result were typical and can’t manage their tract. Their life becomes confused and useless for them, runs lot of question around the mind and maximum cant struggle with those questions and take wrong way even can’t define their life what they are. They feel depression that could cause their death.
After then when they take their parents choice of stream, they suffer whole degree because they don’t have their own interest and can’t express their talent that have imbibed in themselves. They have talent in other stream as they want to take but unfortunately they can’t express their feelings and can’t show their talent, and their results are zero at end.
I remember I had a friend from my college he was interested in civil engineering but unfortunately due to his parents choice he had to pursue BBA and now he has started doing lot of bad things like taking to drugs, smoking, drinking and finally his impression was very bad in the college.
This article may help those parents whom are forcing their wards to take their choice of way.
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